Why Active Listening is the Best Customer Service Skill

Customer Service | 5 minute read

They say the key to any healthy human relationship is effective communication. This principle also applies to the relationship between a customer and a customer service or sales representative.

What is active listening in customer service?

Active listening is the foundation of effective communication. Active listening in customer service means being totally focused on the words that the customer is saying, understanding what those words mean and responding in a manner that validates what they’re saying.
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Why is active listening important in customer service?

Behind every customer call is a real person, looking for guidance or a solution to a problem. It’s critical to engage in active listening in order to make that person feel truly heard, understood, and served. The more empathy you have with your customers — the more you listen to them — the more they will value their relationship with you and the product and services you offer. People just want to be listened to. And customers do notice — nearly 50% of customers believe companies act empathy when delivering customer service.

Here’s why active listening is one of the best communication tools every customer service call center representative should master.

Customers Want to Truly be Heard and Understood

Vocalizing our thoughts and feelings, regardless of our gender is an innate part of our human experience. In fact, we even have a vocalization protein in our brains! As humans, we listen to far fewer words than we think about. On average, humans are able to actively listen to 125 to 250 words per minute but can think about words at a rate of 1000 to 3000 words per minute.

So, even though actively listening may be a challenge, it’s critical to providing a great customer service experience. In fact, research finds that 60% of business problems can be attributed to poor communication. And, since phone calls are still the consumers’ preferred method of contacting customer service, exercising the skill of active listening will reap valuable returns for any organization.

Customers Will Tell You What to Sell Them

If you listen to your customers, even if that’s just on social media or basic feedback surveys, you gather a wealth of information about how your customers view your product. And this may be wildly different than you think.
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Many companies have made a success of pivoting to meet customer demands (ourselves included) and it is clear to anyone that the best way to grow your company is by implementing customers’ feedback. When you do that, existing customers will appreciate you even more, and that’s how you get raving fans. Actively listening to your customers is such a successful approach that more and more companies have switched to it over older models.39587

Actively Listening Means Asking Follow-up Questions

One of the best ways to reassure someone that you’re really listening is to ask a lot of follow-up questions. This keeps the conversation alive!

I can tell right away when my husband isn’t really listening to me, because he’s completely silent while I’m talking. Sometimes this means he’s taking in what I’m saying (rarely!), but usually it means he’s only half-listening. Ironically, it’s actually when he’s being more vocal – asking a lot of questions, following up on previous points, and engaging in dialogue, that I truly feel heard.

Actively Listening Means Asking Follow-up Questions

It can be really tempting to want to wrap up each customer call as quickly as possible and move on to the next person or ticket in your queue. But, the customer service representatives who truly understand effective communication know that each customer call needs time.

Customers shouldn’t be rushed. Asking follow-up questions makes customers feel that they are being given the time they need to voice their concerns and even ask their own questions.

One of the best ways to not have to rush a customer call is by giving the customer the option of receiving a call-back. This allows customer service reps to really take their time with calls, as they don’t have to rush through their queues. And, it makes customers feel as though their time is valued, rather than being wasted waiting on hold.

Active Listening Fosters Understanding and Empathy

Most people call or contact customer service if they’ve encountered a problem with a company’s product or service. That means, more often than not, call center agents have to exhibit a great deal of calm and patience as they navigate each customer’s concerns.

Active listening is especially critical in situations where customers are upset, frustrated, and perhaps exhibiting some hostility. By asking follow-up questions, relaying back their situation, and empathizing with their frustrations, customers feel truly understood and taken care of.

We can all relate to being on the phone with a call center agent who is clearly stuck on their call script and doesn’t seem to care about your concerns. The purpose of having real people at customer service call centers is to offer that personal touch and interaction for consumers, rather than them having to go through automated messaging.

Being able to have a real, authentic conversation is what keeps consumers engaged and coming back. Call center strategies that lose that authenticity ultimately lose customers.

There’s a reason our mothers drilled this saying into us, “you have two ears and one mouth; listen twice as much as you speak”.

Actively listening truly is the key to effective communication. Developing and using that skill in customer service calls means having the opportunity to win a raving, life-long customer.

Tips for Better Active Listening in Customer Service:

  1. Focus on what the customer is saying, rather than what you’re going to say in response
  2. Focus on what the customer isn’t saying – their tone of voice, body language and facial expressions (if you can see them)
  3. Don’t interrupt – nobody likes to be cut off in the middle of a sentence.
  4. Give the customer your full attention, and tune out distractions; definitely don’t multitask while talking to a customer
  5. Take quick notes, but don’t let them distract you from what the customer is saying
  6. Occasionally repeat what the customer has said back to them, to confirm you have the correct information, and to demonstrate your attentiveness
  7. Don’t take it personally when a customer is upset – often they just want you to validate their frustration before you can move on to a solution
  8. Check frequently that you are collecting the right information and understand the issue correctly
  9. Do something about it later. This might seem obvious but you can do all the listening in the world and it won’t matter if the issue isn’t fixed.


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